Florida woman who murdered husband in 'mercy' killing out of jail, will advocate for assisted suicide

A Florida woman who shot her husband in a murder-suicide gone wrong is out of jail after less than one year in prison, after her crime was characterized as a "mercy killing." The woman now says she will push for legalized assisted suicide in the state.

Key Takeaways:

• Ellen Gilland shot her husband in the head as he lay in a hospital bed in January 2023.

• Her actions triggered an hours-long standoff with police.

• She was initially charged with first-degree murder, but those charges were later reduced.

• Her attorney characterized her actions as a "mercy killing." A judge appeared to agree, sentencing her to less than one year in prison for the trauma she caused hospital staff and patients.

• Gilland says she will now advocate for legalized euthanasia in Florida.

The Details:

Ellen Gilland, now 79, shot her husband in the head as he lay in his hospital bed in January 2023. Though she had planned to turn the gun on herself, she found she could not go through with her own suicide.

When doctors and nurses on staff came to investigate the noise, Gilland then threatened them with the gun, triggering a lockdown and standoff that lasted for hours; she was only arrested after police deployed a flashbang into the hospital room and rushed inside. As police entered the room, Gilland fired a second shot into the ceiling.

Gilland was initially charged with first degree murder, but those charges were reduced to assisting self-murder and manslaughter after a grand jury indictment. During her trial, her attorney pushed for probation only, characterizing the murder as a "mercy killing."

In March 2025, Judge Kathryn Weston sentenced her to less than a year in prison, reportedly accepting Gilland's testimony that her husband had asked her to kill him. Weston imposed the sentence for the trauma Gilland inflicted on hospital staff and other patients during the ordeal — not for her husband's killing.

In January, Gilland was released after serving "most" of her sentence. In an exclusive interview with Fox 35, she said she killed her husband because she felt she would be unable to continue caring for him as his dementia and depression progressed.

She told authorities, "There wasn't anything else to do," indicating her belief that killing her husband was her only option.

Gilland told Fox 35 she will advocate for the legalization of assisted suicide in the state.

Why it Matters:

The shocking incident provides a stark look at what happens when society begins to accept assisted suicide and euthanasia as normal or a 'right.' An instance such as this, in which a woman fatally shot her husband in the head in the name of compassion, is classified as a "mercy" rather than a heinous crime.

Gilland's belief that she needed to kill her husband because she couldn't care for him also speaks to the real need for increased access to quality medical care and palliative treatment for vulnerable people and their caregivers. But as assisted suicide and euthanasia become widely accepted, those alternative treatments are viewed as an extra expense and a burden — not a necessity.

The Bottom Line:

Legalized euthanasia has a widespread ripple effect that is almost never talked about, but is clearly seen here. When some suicide and killing is billed a "compassionate" option, the lines are blurred and society begins to accept actions that are clearly criminal.

The truth, however is clear: all human life is valuable and deserves to be treated with care and dignity, not killing.