Chinese woman pregnant by IVF at 62 with baby she says is 'return' of deceased son

A 62-year-old woman in China is pregnant through in vitro fertilization (IVF) — a decision she made after her son died of unspecified causes. Her plight to 'replace' her son is a foreshadowing of the dystopian world that is headed our way through reproductive technologies.

Key Takeaways:

• A 62-year-old woman in China is pregnant through IVF in an attempt to have a baby after the loss of her only child, a son.

• She considers the new baby she is carrying to be the "return" of her son.

• This story exposes the unethical and dystopian reality of the unchecked fertility business and how it caters to the desires of adults, without regards to the rights of children, for the right price.

The Details:

The woman from northeastern China has been updating the world on her life and her pregnancy via her sister's Douyin social media account. She explained that it was one year ago, in January 2025, that she tragically lost her son, who was her only child. It is not clear how he died, but regardless, losing a child is a tragedy — especially heartbreaking in a nation where it was forbidden for decades for couples to have more than one child. In recent years, the country made a 180-degree shift to promoting more children after realizing the disastrous consequences of its one-child policy.

The woman chose to turn to IVF to have a second child. At 62, it is unlikely that she had eggs remaining that would be deemed healthy enough for a fertility doctor to use, and there is also no mention of a husband. Therefore, the woman likely used a donor egg with her husband's sperm or both a donor egg and donor sperm to create this baby.

She is currently six months pregnant, and while finding out the baby's sex before birth is banned in China in an attempt to curb rampant sex-selective abortions, she feels she is carrying a boy who "is the return of my son."

Why It Matters:

It's impossible not to recognise the loss this woman suffered, but attempting to resurrect or reincarnate her son through IVF is an unethical way to cope with that grief. This new baby was created with the intention that he (or she) would never know at least one of his or her biological parents, but was also created with an expectation (or many expectations) put on his/her life even before creation in the lab. All of the woman's hopes and dreams about this child's life rest on this child's shoulders — a child who will likely be a very different person from the child he/she was created to 'replace.' This could lead to pressures to conform to the mother's disordered psychological desires.

Questions linger about whether this mother will accept or how she will respond if she gives birth to a daughter instead of to a 'replacement' son in a country that has long valued boys over girls.

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The Bottom Line:

This woman's efforts to replace her son are a small piece of a larger dystopian future in which children are solely created through IVF in order to fulfill the desires of the adults who feel entitled to a child.

While IVF may have been created with an intention to help couples have biological children, it was never focused on what was best for the children. It was always about the interests of the adults — and the money funneled into the billion-dollar fertility industry.

Embryonic humans can now be tested for existing health conditions as well as potential future health conditions, along with hair color, height, and even IQ. Intended parents can mix and match their desired traits using sperm or eggs chosen from a catalog of individuals willing to sell their future children to strangers. The children are often denied basic human rights: the right to life (since the IVF process is often eugenic) and the right to know one's biological parents. The majority of children created through IVF do not survive the process to birth.

The runaway fertility industry must be stopped. It is driving society toward a dystopian future in which children are not loved for their inherent value but are expected to meet unrealistic expectations for adults who paid for a 'product' and want to make certain they get exactly who they paid for.